有时候,我想,女人是不是应该找一个爱她比她爱他多一点的伴侣。这并不代表她不爱他,而只是不愿太过度付出而遭到伤害。
一个女人往往比较“吃亏”因为她比较会付出感情。一旦付出了就很难收回。若遭到伤害,也比较难抚平伤口。这是女人的优点,也是她缺点。也许她也希望被人疼爱多一点。毕竟,一个能比她爱他多一点的男人应该更懂得珍惜她吧。
当然,如果她能肯定得确定他是全心全意地爱她是,她是不会畏缩的。
其实,若两人真的是真心相爱的,谁爱得比较多也是很难衡量的为数。
哈哈。。。好矛盾。
这只是一个女人的想法。
9 years ago

A guy friend agreed that it's better to have the guy love the girl more than she does because girls [usually] expect more from guys.
ReplyDeleteIt is this "expect more" part of the girls that requires more love from the guys to meet, I guess...
I like it that you wrote it in Chinese. Sounds more...romantic, haha.
haha...we so demanding one hah?
ReplyDeleteyup. Chinese more 诗意. I think this type of thing better to express in Chinese.