I'm tired of waiting for something/someone to come round. So recently, (this sounds embarassing) I updated my SDN lovebyte profile. Incidentally, I received a few messages so far, but have not responded to any of them, yet. Call it apprehension, but I don't really know how I should respond or whether I should respond.
One problem with this service is that the profiles posted don't indicate our religion, unless we explicitly say it in the description of ourselves or what we look for (I submitted feedback on this to SDN). So how shall I reply? The most important thing I want to know first is if they are (active) Christians.
I've also been wondering, does the website highlight "recently updated" profiles? That's why I've been receiving messages? Or maybe they just like my picture (I used my current FB profile)? Or maybe it's the description of myself? A couple of them did say they read my profile and wished to know more (but don't know if they say the same thing to other girls too).
If they have read what I look for, they would know I'm looking for a Christian. So should I ask outright whether they are Christians? Or maybe in a less direct way like which church they go to? How do I even start a "conversation"?
I'm totally inexperienced in this.
9 years ago
"I'm tired of waiting for something/someone to come round. So recently, (this sounds embarassing) I updated my SDN lovebyte profile. Incidentally, I received a few messages so far, but have not responded to any of them, yet. Call it apprehension, but I don't really know how I should respond or whether I should respond."
ReplyDeleteNot sure if you caught the irony in your two bolded statements above. The point I'm trying to make is - time and tide waits for no man. You say you're tired of waiting for something to happen, but when it happens, you don't take action? It always takes two hands to clap.