What is it with guys that they 'prefer' girls that are as sporty as them.
I may not be the super outdoor kind but I like some hiking (ok, more nature trails kind) and I prefer games, like racquet games or ball games. At least I fence. And even if I don't play those sports, it doesn't mean I don't enjoy them in other ways.
What do you expect me to do? Sky dive?
9 years ago
Whoa, what happened here??
ReplyDeleteWell, I think it's not totally wrong to say one "prefers" their other half to be so-and-so. Just like how girls may say they would prefer their man to be interested in the arts, or be interested in social work, etc.
At the end of the day, we are all entitled to our ideals...but we should also understand that there is no perfect situation and what we hope for may not always come true.
And also, one should not force another person to be something that he or she isn't.
Lastly, I don't see why we should change our fundamental selves just to hope to please someone else. I mean, yeah some things could possibly be changed, but fundamental things such as not liking sports, or being a more passive person...these things are our base nature and we can't and shouldn't try to change it just to hope to please someone else.
Be yourself lor.
ReplyDeleteDo all guys like sporty girls. I don't think so wor. However I don't agree less sporty equals less exciting.
It's good to be exciting though. It attracts.
KL
Just someone who commented that he was looking for someone more "exciting" like sporty...without even meeting me.
ReplyDeleteFine, maybe I'm not sporty or too artsy for them. It just got me thinking that maybe this was also a response from others that I've met before?
Well, I guess each of us have our ideals. But who will fit exactly? Guess the person just has the priority set on sports. Anyway, being "exciting" is relative. And well, if the person can't accept the individual as is now, then it's not worth it.
Sometimes, both people will become more "interesting" because of interaction.
Just a random rant.
I agree with KL...just be yourself. I think the most important thing is to be true to yourself.
ReplyDeleteAnd I also agree with you that being "exciting" is relative. It doesn't necessarily mean that a sporty person is always exciting.